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We didn't meet through the personals, we met through chat. He made a smart*** comment on his profile about finding a way to combine porn and fishing. A friend had recently sent me a picture of a woman “holding” a fishing pole, so on a spur of the moment decision, I emailed it to him.

We talked online for about 3 months and then started the phone conversations. That lasted about a month, then we decided to meet.

I had the bright idea to meet at a gay bar. I thought we would have a better chance of being left alone. BAD idea. We met at the town's only lesbian bar, and had to leave shortly thereafter, since a woman was hitting on me and could not be convinced that I wasn't gay. She thought I just didn't like her, even though she really wasn't my type. We went bar hopping for the rest of the evening and he dropped me off at around 4 a.m. We've been together every since. That was two years ago tomorrow. We got married on Christmas Eve of last year and are expecting our daughter in about 2-3 weeks.

I've learned that everyone is a freak on the internet, it's just to what degree of freaky you are willing to settle for.

We didn't meet through the personals, we met through chat. He made a smart*** comment on his profile about finding a way to combine porn and fishing. A friend had recently sent me a picture of a woman “holding” a fishing pole, so on a spur of the moment decision, I emailed it to him.

We talked online for about 3 months and then started the phone conversations. That lasted about a month, then we decided to meet.

I had the bright idea to meet at a gay bar. I thought we would have a better chance of being left alone. BAD idea. We met at the town's only lesbian bar, and had to leave shortly thereafter, since a woman was hitting on me and could not be convinced that I wasn't gay. She thought I just didn't like her, even though she really wasn't my type. We went bar hopping for the rest of the evening and he dropped me off at around 4 a.m. We've been together every since. That was two years ago tomorrow. We got married on Christmas Eve of last year and are expecting our daughter in about 2-3 weeks.

I've learned that everyone is a freak on the internet, it's just to what degree of freaky you are willing to settle for.

After separating from my husband of 13 yrs I decided to try internet dating. Well after a year of meeting mostly losers, (no teeth, unhygenic, interested in themselves, cheap) although some I met were very nice and I have remained friends with, just no romantic interest, I was just about to quit dating for awhile. Then I got an email from a man who sounded very sweet and actually lived in my town.

We met one Friday nite and just kinda clicked. It went kind of rocky at first, as I was still not quite ready for a relationship and he was also kind of insecure at the time. Bill had his own internet horror stories to tell me, he had met a few people, lived with one whom he moved here who ended up cheating on him, he also went down to meet another one (americans) who has since been stalking him for about 2 years. Just doesnt get the hint I guess, but we think we finally lost her.

Anyhow we dated for quite a few months, then moved in together. In the year 2000 we bought a house together, got a puppy and are now planning on being together forever. We both have 2 children from previous marriages, and two grandchildren each. I just want to say that I am glad he contacted me just before I was about to give up on internet meetings or I would never have met him. He is my love; kind, caring and sensitive. I love you Bill!!!

After a 6 year relationship that was filled with abuse, and then a year of me “dating” and my best friend moving out of state, I became lonely and I bought a computer in 9/98. Never knowing I'd meet the man of my dreams. On 10/10/98 this guy Instant messaged me and we began talking. We were on different work schedules. We'd get up in the middle of the night or morning to talk to one another. A day didnt go by that we didnt email each other back..we always found time. We escalated to talking on the phone after 2 months of writing. We finally met on November 22, 1998. He brought me to the lakeshore, watched the sun set with 12 long stem roses, a bottle of champagne, and a wonderful dinner. When it was time to go home, my truck didnt start..he took me all the way home (40 min. away) and delivered my truck fixed to me the next day.

It is now May 2000 and I am still with him. Everyday I thank god I met him – online. We are planning to get married. This guy is a dream come true.

There are wonderful people out there..just waiting to meet each other.

My Name is Moe am 27 years old, I live in United Arab Emirates, in Abu Dhabi, and 14 years ago when I was like 13 years old, I was in love with a girl she used to live next door, every day I used to stay 9 hours just waiting for school to finish so I can go and wait her to come from school just to look at her sweet lovely eyes.

So when the school bus drop me home I just go running to the bathroom to take a shower, put on my perfume, and put on the best clothes I have every single day.

I go call my best friend and ask him to go out waiting with me, her maid used to wait her too, with her small little brother and his name is Moe too, he was 2 years old that time he used to be so cute, I used to spend all the time playing football (a game I hate) with him just to see her kissing him when she arrived from school and I stayed this way months without even telling her about my feelings.

At the summer time I went to my country for a vacation, I got her a gift with the letter M as the first letter of her name (and by the way Her name is Mirvat) and I decided to go to her house and knock the door and give her the gift just like that.

And I finally knocked her door and she opened, but there was one problem that she opened the door like she was going to kill me for bothering her while she was sleeping or something, anyways she was angry and her eyes were on fire, so I freaked out and I couldn’t think what to do, finally I told her I just got this gift to your brother Moe, and I was like :S .

That was the last day I ever saw her, they traveled for a vacation and then we moved from that aria, and I never been able to meet the girl I love again.

So before 3 months I was surfing the net and I was searching in a nice website called Facebook, I saw a lovely girl who is single and she’s 27 years old , she looked so beautiful I liked her profile picture and it’s the only picture I could see because she’s not in my friends list, I add her to my list and she accepted and I never got the time to go to her profile and see her pictures, after a while she left a comment on 1 of my pictures I loved the comment then I replied back, I added her to my MSN Messenger and we started to chat, after along adult chat she told me that she saw my face somehow or somewhere before, and that made me go to her profile to have a look at her pictures, and when I saw them I was shocked I was going to have a heart attack, is she the same girl I used to love 14 years ago?

I asked her a lot of a questions and all of them made me sure that she’s my dream, I was strong enough just to tell her that I used to love her long time ago. I told her that I played too much football just for you and just to see you, and that gift was for you not your brother but she couldn’t remember it, she smiled and couldn’t believe all this.

We talked that day on the Internet more than 13 hours , was so amazing no story such as this one, and we met the day after that, and we are in love now with each other and we are planning to be engaged soon.

This is my story and I just feel so happy sharing it with everyone.

Neither of us were expecting to fall in love online, but yet here we are telling you our story. This is the story of our first meeting.

It was an early morning of August 6th, a sharp ringing woke me up; I stumbled for the phone on my nightstand.

“Hello” I answered in my sleepy voice

“Hi baby time to get up and catch a plane” I smiled and woke up slowly, knowing that soon I would be in the arms of someone I loved so much. I said goodnight to Clayton, and got ready for the long journey ahead of me. My sister Sarah was picking me up along with my mother. I’d never flown before, and this was such a major step for me to take. Flying half way across the world, on my own to meet someone I’d never met before. And what made it worse was that I had to change flights in Copenhagen, I was taking a big risk.

But I knew I’d be all right somehow I just knew everything would be ok. Although the other part of me was literally terrified, scared that Clayton wouldn’t like me once we met and vice versa too.

After a 2hr drive with my mother and sister we got to Birmingham Airport. With mixed emotions I checked my luggage in. I looked down at my watch, 10am less than an hour and I’d be flying. I sat in the cafeteria with a luke-warm coffee, I looked over at my mother, who was watching the planes take off. The look in her eyes told me that she was so excited for me. And from that moment I knew this wasn’t a dream, I was actually going to be boarding my first flight in 45mins. A tear started to roll down my cheek, I felt scared and alone. I cried even harder as I leaned over and hugged my mother tightly.

“I don’t want to go now.” I sobbed. My sister smiled at my mother and said

“I thought you’d be in tears before her” I wiped my wet eyes and took a deep breath my mother said.

“Look you can do this, you’ve been looking forward to this for so long. It’s a chance of a life time to go to the States, you’ll be fine.” I smiled and hugged her tightly, tears from my mother started to fall, but yet she didn’t realize that what she had just said made me feel warm and happy inside.

Finally my flight was called; I slowly walked over to the boarding area. I hugged my mother and sister. And gave my passport and ticket to the man standing there, I turned round and waved goodbye for the last time. Tears swelled my eyes again as I walked through to check my hand luggage. I walked down the corridor into the boarding lounge. I handed my passport and ticket, and I walked down the long tunnel and onto my first plane, bound for Copenhagen. I sat there with my seatbelt fastened I watched the ground slowly disappear, and then quickly replaced with sky and fluffy white clouds, it was amazing.

I arrived in Copenhagen a little lost, but somewhat excited. I found my next flight easy, so much easier than I thought it would be. In fact I got there an hour earlier than I was suppose too. Time went by and I handed my passport and ticket to be checked, I walked onto my second flight bound for Seattle. A 10hr flight later and I walked off into Customs, the line was long, and I slowly walked over to a booth where my passport was stamped. Yaay I had a stamp on my passport! I slowly boarded a Transit Train, which took me to collect my luggage; I didn’t know where to go from there so I stood still. I noticed everyone going up the escalator in front of me. I walked a little to the escalator and I saw a familiar face, Clayton was standing right at the top. I walked on and watched Clayton move towards me, as the stairs moved to the top. I smiled and tried to speak but I couldn’t my mouth was so dry and I was so tired. He handed me a single red rose and I smiled, as I smelled the flower.

“Mmm, thank you it’s beautiful.” He caressed my cheek and said “No you're beautiful, come here I need a hug.” He wrapped his arms around me tightly, and tingles ran through my whole body I smiled, as we held each other for a good ten minutes it was perfect. Finally I was with the guy I had fallen in love with, he raised my chin and kissed me deeply. As we kissed, our first kiss, I knew that things were just as they should be.

We collected my luggage and walked back to his car, the atmosphere between us was amazing I couldn’t stop giggling and he couldn’t stop holding my hand. All my fears I had at the very beginning had vanished. I know Clayton loves me for me and I love him for him. I wouldn’t have it any other way.

The whole 2wks were the best of my life every day was perfect, he made everyday all the more special. Especially the day when we went on a Cruise to Victoria Canada, he proposed with a gorgeous engagement ring, and I accepted. I know Clayton is the one I am truly meant to be with and share my life with to the full; it’s funny how it all started over an IM 6 years ago. We were married 6 July 2004.

Wanted to share my internet romance. Back in May of 2001 I went on to an over 40's chat out of curiosity. I was not looking for anybody. I met a man through the chat who also was not on the lookout. I guess in the way I was talking, it caught his eye and he asked if he could e-mail me as a friend. We both stated from the beginning that it was nothing more than friendship. The more we talked, the more things began to change.

He sent me his photo and I sent him mine. He expressed his feelings of love for me and I did the same in return. On September 20th he came to Canada to visit me (he is from the U.S.) and we knew even before the visit we would be attracted to each other. As soon as we met at the airport we knew it! We had such a great time together. He kept telling me how much he loved me, he held my hand constantly as we walked around seeing the sights and the kisses were certainly there as well. On the 23rd he told me had to have me and asked me to be his wife. I immediately responded with a yes.

For all you that may think we might be very young people, this is not the case. I'm 42 and he is 51. I work for a police agency and he is in state government. My son and I are now flying down to his state for the American Thanksgiving and to meet his family, friends and co-workers. He has already started with the immigration papers (which we are truly hoping) will not become a big headache or a long wait. We speak to each other every day either by computer or by telephone expressing our love for each other. In the future, when I have been given permission by immigration to be married, I will then move to the States and we will be married in his home state. I never thought in my wildest dreams that this kind of situation would ever happen to me.

I have heard the negative feedback on internet dating but on the other hand, I've heard more positive coming out of it. I already know – 2 girls in my office are successful internet dating – one with someone in Canada and the other with someone in the U.S. Good luck to everybody who goes this route.

I meet my boyfriend online 2 years ago through Love@AOL. We e-mailed for a couple of days and exchanged phone numbers at his request, he wasn't the greatest of typists,(laughing) and I gave him the benefit of the doubt when I gave him my number. Needless to say it was worth the gamble.

We had great chemistry, dated for a year, parted company for a year, we dated others, but maintained our friendship. I ended a 4 year relationship in May. We were together for 3 years, a year apart, reconciliatiion and I finally decided to stop trying to fix everything. I was sooo glad that I still had Al in my life and why I broke up with him for a year was one of the dumbest mistakes. We're together again!!!

On the flip side, when I was e-mailing Al, I received a e-mail from a latin gentleman who at first glance seemed very nice…..until. We corresponded for a couple of days and I made the mistake of telling him where I worked. This was in response to one of his e-mails where he gave details about his family and his job. How naive could I be!!!!

The day after this e-mail, I was back in my office after lunch and this gentleman came to the counter. I thought he was applying for a job and in the next few seconds of conversation, I found out it was my AOL guy. He scared the living daylights out of me….he just showed up and wanted to know if we could go to lunch. It was late and I was just back from my lunch and I told him this. Needless to say, he could tell I was a taken by surprise but apologized and said he just wanted to meet me. I knew when I checked my e-mail, there would be something there. Sure enough, an e-greeting. I sent a nice thanks but no thanks and explained why and told him for the future, he shouldn't pop up at someone's job unannounced. Enough said and I didn't hear from him again.

I never placed an ad but I did go out with a guy I met in a chat room. I went on one date and he brought his child along. He turned out to be not divorced yet with a small child who couldn't keep a job and didn't want to. He thought everyone should do as he says and fists seemed to be the way he spoke to people. I helped his soon to be ex-wife get custody so maybe in a way I helped. But what an ass!

I then went out with a guy I met in a chatroom for a college. He helps host people and show them around the city. He's 10 years my senior and a sweetheart. He seemed more like a friend next door kind on the internet, but turned out to be a never married business man with goals and aspirations. Has no children, doesn't smoke, and still talks to mom & dad.
We're still together–it's been more then a year.

Advice for other women—forget the losers and check them out before meeting them. I called the college and got info on the latest. Also don't meet them alone. I had a friend and her boyfriend on the 1st date with me. You can miss the few nice guys on here.